Thats just the thing they aren't bad neighbours well weren't anyway, we get along with Lisa really well and used to with rich her bloke but he decided to acuse me and lisa of having an affair.....and he's become very toxic, though he won't win the war nor any preceeding battles as I don't rise to his shite and tell him as much when I see him.
I know from an outside opinion that she should tell him to do one and both me and the wife have said to her so but she says she loves him, its very difficult in these abuse cases to get the abused to see the light at the end of the tunnel if they let go of the abuser all we can do is be support for her and do what is needed when the time comes