At least you're OK Rich......but I doubt your missus is going to be too impressed! Even more so because you've just had a new addition to the family.
One thing I'll say, and it's up to you if you take it on board! I've always believed in fate, and that things happen for a reason.
I'd take this as a warning and seriously think whether you should continue to do this trackday stuff.
If you were my age then the pressure isn't so much.......after all, the words "Life in Prison" doesn't exactly put the fear of God into us these days.
Your circumstances are very different......so I'd think long and hard about it.