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[boboneleg]

1 minute ago, Slowlycatchymonkey said:

You owe a bad guy, you owe them for life. 

Hence why we didn't take up the 'services' offered to us by some dude in a Range Rover parked up outside our workplace one morning after we had been burgled

 

 

[busabeast]

7 minutes ago, Slowlycatchymonkey said:

That's shit. 

She's clearly unhappy at the moment. 

If that's a permanent state of affairs she might need professional help to help her figure out what's going on. 

Yeah clearly she is but she doesn't seem able to talk calmly... its all fine then nuclear explosion. 

I worry what's going on when I'm not here tbh, she keeps asking to stay with me in the truck so it can't be good

[Buckster]

2 minutes ago, busabeast said:

I think I have to agree with you there

Is she a bit chunky then?

[Buckster]

1 minute ago, boboneleg said:

Hence why we didn't take up the 'services' offered to us by some dude in a Range Rover parked up outside our workplace one morning after we had been burgled

 

 

He was probably the burglar.

[boboneleg]

Just now, Buckster said:

He was probably the burglar.

Or their boss ?  the burglars were a bunch of little scrotes who couldn't even ride the bikes properly

[Six30]

6 hours ago, Clive said:

I am not sure what I get my wife spends it on male escorts and strip clubs as soon as its in the bank.  

[Earache]

Just got home and found the little bastards that kept me awake all night last night. Living in a culvert under the driveway. Will have to persuade them to move on in a bit...

[XTreme]

4 minutes ago, busabeast said:

I think I have to agree with you there

The unreasonable and illogical behaviour, self-pitying, self-entitlement, divorce threats, always playing the victim etc......it's like she read my posts about Fatty and thought they were an instruction manual.

[Six30]

9 minutes ago, busabeast said:

I think I have to agree with you there

If you want her gone show me a pick , i'll give you a price .

[boboneleg]

3 minutes ago, Earache said:

Just got home and found the little bastards that kept me awake all night last night. Living in a culvert under the driveway. Will have to persuade them to move on in a bit...

So cute but if they're anything like the ones around here they're so feckin noisy .

[Clive]

6 minutes ago, Six30 said:

Wish there was money left over from my pension for such frivolities. 

[Slowlycatchymonkey]

12 minutes ago, busabeast said:

Yeah clearly she is but she doesn't seem able to talk calmly... its all fine then nuclear explosion. 

I worry what's going on when I'm not here tbh, she keeps asking to stay with me in the truck so it can't be good

I'm so sorry, that really really sucks. 

My mum hated being a mother and used explode or sulk for and absolute age. My dad never understood why we were all so thrilled to see him when he got home from work...

You might have to do something for the sake of your daughter. 

Staying at home with a kid all day does send some people crazy. Half the mums at school were tranq'd out of their minds. Too many demands mixed with too much time to contemplate the things that went wrong IMO.

Then some well meaning soul persuades them to join the church mother and baby group for support, a place that's filled with other dead eyed mogadoned feckers that confirm their lives are officially over (no offence Buck, they just are the absolute pits).

Professional help is the only thing thats going to unfurl whatever screwing your wife up.  

@XTreme a bit much mate. She's clearly fucked up but that doesn't make her the devils spawn. 

[Six30]

5 minutes ago, Clive said:

Wish there was money left over from my pension for such frivolities. 

can send you a video , just me in it .... wont charge you anything , seeing as its you

 

[Earache]

31 minutes ago, boboneleg said:

So cute but if they're anything like the ones around here they're so feckin noisy .

They  won't be noisy after tonight  - Mr. Glock is going out for a visit.

[Clive]

1 minute ago, Six30 said:

can send you a video , just me in it .... wont charge you anything , seeing as its you

 

Give that a miss thanks.

 

[XTreme]

9 minutes ago, Slowlycatchymonkey said:

@XTreme a bit much mate. She's clearly fucked up but that doesn't make her the devils spawn. 

She's not at Fatty's level yet.......I can't imagine anybody else on this planet is! But that's the direction she's heading! And that's worrying as there's a small child involved.

I agree on the point about some women don't want to be mothers though......my old girl was one!

Her attitude and behaviour was difficult (understatement) most of the time! You could walk through the door and she'd be reasonably pleasant......or totally psycho. You never knew which version you'd get on any given day!

As an example of what she was like, her mother (my gran) was taken ill in the house when I was about 5......but she wouldn't go to her room to help her!

Then when it went quiet she got her friend to confirm that her mother was dead, and then called the undertaker to take the body away! She never went to the funeral. And she openly admitted it with no shame or guilt whatsoever. Absolutely cold as ice!.

Not long before she died she told the wife that the problem with me (amongst many other things) was that I'd gone through life blaming her for my father's death! The wife said no he doesn't.....he's never thought that. But my old girl wouldn't have it!

Me and the wife talked about it after and thought she's just invented another scenario that never happened, But it did cross our minds what did she have on her conscience to come out with something like that? Did she have something to hide?

I never thought I'd ever experience behaviour like that again......but then Fatty turned up, said "Hold My Beer", and raised the bar to hitherto unknown levels.

[Slowlycatchymonkey]

8 minutes ago, XTreme said:

She's not at Fatty's level yet.......I can't imagine anybody else on this planet is! But that's the direction she's heading! And that's worrying as there's a small child involved.

I agree on the point about some women don't want to be mothers though......my old girl was one!

Her attitude and behaviour was difficult (understatement) most of the time! You could walk through the door and she'd be reasonably pleasant......or totally psycho. You never knew which version you'd get on any given day!

As an example of what she was like, her mother (my gran) was taken ill in the house when I was about 5......but she wouldn't go to her room to help her!

Then when it went quiet she got her friend to confirm that her mother was dead, and then called the undertaker to take the body away! She never went to the funeral. And she openly admitted it with no shame or guilt whatsoever. Absolutely cold as ice!.

Not long before she died she told the wife that the problem with me (amongst many other things) was that I'd gone through life blaming her for my father's death! The wife said no he doesn't.....he's never thought that. But my old girl wouldn't have it!

Me and the wife talked about it after and thought she's just invented another scenario that never happened, But it did cross our minds what did she have on her conscience to come out with something like that? Did she have something to hide?

I never thought I'd ever experience behaviour like that again......but then Fatty turned up, said "Hold My Beer", and raised the bar to hitherto unknown levels.

Tragic Pete.

We inherently want our parents love and approval so I can only imagine there was other shit going on there between her and her mum. 

It's entirely possible that busabeasts wife is clinically depressed. That could be a general chemical imbalance or caused by life events that would depress anyone or even a combination of the two. Point is that with this sort of thing it requires a determined perseverance to sort it out that the person themselves doesn't possess because they're not in a good place. 

It's quite staggering how many people are on the receiving end of bad parenting and on course for replicating the experience for their own kids.. and on.. and on it goes. 

Sometimes there really is no way to help and you have to walk away. Other times it's a phase while people try to work shit out.  

Personally I don't believe theres enough therapy in the world to sort my own mother out, she looks to me like pathologically damaged goods. 

But not everyones that way. Some people can work things out. Rich's wife coming to terms with motherhood and real life might be one of them. 

[XTreme]

1 minute ago, Slowlycatchymonkey said:

It's quite staggering how many people are on the receiving end of bad parenting and on course for replicating the experience for their own kids.. and on.. and on it goes. 

I was well aware from a very young age that there was something seriously wrong with her. Thankfully I had the intellect to see that.......and unfortunately I went through my life having to deal with her actions.

When I had children I was aware that I'd experienced a real life example of how not to be a parent. So there was no way I was going to repeat it. I couldn't have done so anyway......because I wasn't fucking mental.

I always have been, and always will be, the softest touch with children and animals. And they can tell! It's the reason why I can't make eye contact with stray dogs or they'll follow me home!  That's how we ended up with 6 at one time!

The wife was always the disciplinarian, not me! She says to this day that the eldest one (the one married to Fatty) is the way he is because I babied him and gave in to him too much. It's all my fault apparently.

[Slowlycatchymonkey]

40 minutes ago, XTreme said:

I was well aware from a very young age that there was something seriously wrong with her. Thankfully I had the intellect to see that.......and unfortunately I went through my life having to deal with her actions.

When I had children I was aware that I'd experienced a real life example of how not to be a parent. So there was no way I was going to repeat it. I couldn't have done so anyway......because I wasn't fucking mental.

I always have been, and always will be, the softest touch with children and animals. And they can tell! It's the reason why I can't make eye contact with stray dogs or they'll follow me home!  That's how we ended up with 6 at one time!

The wife was always the disciplinarian, not me! She says to this day that the eldest one (the one married to Fatty) is the way he is because I babied him and gave in to him too much. It's all my fault apparently.

At some point regardless of your upbringing you have to take responsibility for yourself, your son is the way he is because that's the way it's easiest for him to be. That's not on your head. 

[Marcel le Moose Fondler]

3 hours ago, busabeast said:

Why the fuck does my fucking wife think her life is so fucking bad....she stays at home to bring up the sprog who more often than not she's shouting at or telling her off or telling her she's had enough of her.... and she wonders why she doesn't listen to her..... the mind boggles!!

So tonight I reigned her in abit because she was berating her for not listening so I told her to wind it back a touch and the wife went off it saying oh so long as me and skye are happy who cares about her.... she's off her fucking head im sure of if.

Having a go at me because skye actually listens to me when I speak to her.... well go figure it could be because I talk to her like she's a fucking human being and not an inconvenience.... could have something to do with it.

She was on about divorcing me and putting skye in an orphanage.......what the fuck, I could fucking kill her right now

Being younger than most here you should know most have gone through something similar to what your going through ( Except Buck he's a virgine) at the moment ...it's a touchy subject but if you're both miserable in this relationship, keep in mind you're child will suffer the same with two parents not getting along.

At some point sometimes parting ways is the better solution... if you can't work things out...your still young but one day ...in a blink of and eye you'll be 50 and I hope you don't live 20 years of misery like I did...

 

[XTreme]

6 minutes ago, Marcel said:

Except Buck he's a virgine

[Slowlycatchymonkey]

Packing up the house for the summer, won't be back til September/October at the earliest when it's cooled down a bit. 

Washing machine broken so lots of crappy visits to the laundrette in store. 

On the bright side the routes for the ride back are loaded into my Garmin which is a minor miracle in itself, Garmin is so clunky I'm never going to complain about Apple products again!

[Catteeclan]

12 hours ago, busabeast said:

Why the fuck does my fucking wife think her life is so fucking bad....she stays at home to bring up the sprog who more often than not she's shouting at or telling her off or telling her she's had enough of her.... and she wonders why she doesn't listen to her..... the mind boggles!!

So tonight I reigned her in abit because she was berating her for not listening so I told her to wind it back a touch and the wife went off it saying oh so long as me and skye are happy who cares about her.... she's off her fucking head im sure of if.

Having a go at me because skye actually listens to me when I speak to her.... well go figure it could be because I talk to her like she's a fucking human being and not an inconvenience.... could have something to do with it.

She was on about divorcing me and putting skye in an orphanage.......what the fuck, I could fucking kill her right now

Was never quite that bad with Mandi and Samantha but like them, I hope they both come out of it the best of friends.

[Buckster]

1 hour ago, Slowlycatchymonkey said:

Packing up the house for the summer, won't be back til September/October at the earliest when it's cooled down a bit. 

Washing machine broken so lots of crappy visits to the laundrette in store. 

On the bright side the routes for the ride back are loaded into my Garmin which is a minor miracle in itself, Garmin is so clunky I'm never going to complain about Apple products again!

[busabeast]

1 hour ago, Catteeclan said:

Was never quite that bad with Mandi and Samantha but like them, I hope they both come out of it the best of friends.

I'm sure she's bipolar, she changes mood and attitude almost by the second and snaps at the least provoking