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Slowlycatchymonkey

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1 minute ago, XTreme said:

Wow......great info Caroline! Thing is, I want to get a fix on where he is without him knowing.......cos I don't want to go in blind.

I've been hunting since I came to Spain......no traces on search engines, social media, court listings, death notices etc.

It's like him and the other two have disappeared off the face of the earth.

Is it possible your ex remarried and their surname changed? 

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4 minutes ago, Slowlycatchymonkey said:

Is it possible your ex remarried and their surname changed? 

No......they're all well into their 40's now.

And I had custody of the eldest one anyway! Which was a rare thing to happen in the mid 80's.

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Just now, Slowlycatchymonkey said:

You could try a debt collection agency. Not cos they’d necessarily been in debt but I believe (don’t quote me) they pay to have database access to bank account details that include the persons address. 

Pretty hit and miss I'd have thought!

And I don't want to openly contact any other entities......it needs to be covert.

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2 hours ago, XTreme said:

You're so fucking clueless and thick it's unreal.

It's actually to trace somebody. Just about everybody here knew that except you.

I don’t read most of the shite you put up … who you after … I know a man that can .

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6 minutes ago, Six30 said:

I don’t read most of the shite you put up … who you after … I know a man that can .

My eldest son 46.......and that trace might lead to the other two.

I did get a sort of lead about 15 years ago and got an address somewhere down your way.

@Buckster checked it out but no joy!

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15 minutes ago, XTreme said:

My eldest son 46.......and that trace might lead to the other two.

I did get a sort of lead about 15 years ago and got an address somewhere down your way.

@Buckster checked it out but no joy!

You are a glutton for punishment you just got rid of one leach and now you're looking for more :classic_laugh:

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4 minutes ago, Sir Fallsalot said:

You are a glutton for punishment you just got rid of one leach and now you're looking for more :classic_laugh:

So many loose ends in my life Fred.......and time's running out to tie them all up.

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25 minutes ago, XTreme said:

My eldest son 46.......and that trace might lead to the other two.

I did get a sort of lead about 15 years ago and got an address somewhere down your way.

@Buckster checked it out but no joy!

@Buckster .. he’s a monkey .. give me the details 

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Persuaded the Super Light to fire up and headed out for a bimble with a friend on an 888 SPO. Back to the '90s! Beautiful weather and between the ride and a conversation we had I decided the SL is NOT going to get sold next spring.  During this stop I got a text asking me to take some photos at a weddding that evening but before that my wife got us tickets to a show. So a busy day for me. 

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Ok, fine, this all happened yesterday but I'm slow to post and who really cares when anyway? 

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6 hours ago, XTreme said:

Good to see you Scott.....still got the XT?

Sure do Pete... just gotta charge the battery & blow all the dust off it. It'll be great to  hear that beast fire up... & show the hillbillies that live below me, what a Real thump sounds like. Also finally got the cylinder head on the XR repaired with a brand new stage1 cam from Hot Cams as well as a fresh set of rings....just dealing with aches & pains from bike wrecks & MRSA currently....so getting the lead outta my backside takes a bit longer than the old days. Gonna end up giving the XT to my brother down in Waco TX.....& the XR is going to my youngest boy down in NM...tentatively, gonna make those deliveries next spring.

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10 hours ago, XTreme said:

All I have is full name, DOB, and Nat Insurance Number?

Is that enough to go on?

It’s done … don’t worry it was painless and quick , 

 

you owe me .

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Slowlycatchymonkey

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14 hours ago, XTreme said:

So many loose ends in my life Fred.......and time's running out to tie them all up.

If you’ve been looking for over a decade and turned up nothing then it’s probably time to face up to the idea that covertly isn’t working. 
Prepare a letter saying what you want to so it’s ready to send the second they’re located and go for it. Put your search out there on social media, contact everyone you know who has had contact with them and reach out to friends and family from the area. 

There’s no way they won’t have looked you up, even if it was a just a drunken google of where their dad is the curiosity will be there. 

The worse that can happen is your requests are denied so what have you got to lose? At least you can say you tried.

Carry on with the ineffective methods you’re currently using and like you say time will run out. 
 

Sometimes being bold is the only way to go. 

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21 minutes ago, Slowlycatchymonkey said:

If you’ve been looking for over a decade and turned up nothing then it’s probably time to face up to the idea that covertly isn’t working. 
Prepare a letter saying what you want to so it’s ready to send the second they’re located and go for it. Put your search out there on social media, contact everyone you know who has had contact with them and reach out to friends and family from the area. 

There’s no way they won’t have looked you up, even if it was a just a drunken google of where their dad is the curiosity will be there. 

The worse that can happen is your requests are denied so what have you got to lose? At least you can say you tried.

Carry on with the ineffective methods you’re currently using and like you say time will run out. 
 

Sometimes being bold is the only way to go. 

Who’s he looking for then

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Slowlycatchymonkey

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15 hours ago, XTreme said:

My eldest son 46.......and that trace might lead to the other two.

I did get a sort of lead about 15 years ago and got an address somewhere down your way.

@Buckster checked it out but no joy!

So you’re not kidding about not reading Pete’s posts? 😆

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