XTreme Posted September 12, 2023 Author Share Posted September 12, 2023 49 minutes ago, Slowlycatchymonkey said: If you’ve been looking for over a decade and turned up nothing then it’s probably time to face up to the idea that covertly isn’t working. Prepare a letter saying what you want to so it’s ready to send the second they’re located and go for it. Put your search out there on social media, contact everyone you know who has had contact with them and reach out to friends and family from the area. There’s no way they won’t have looked you up, even if it was a just a drunken google of where their dad is the curiosity will be there. The worse that can happen is your requests are denied so what have you got to lose? At least you can say you tried. Carry on with the ineffective methods you’re currently using and like you say time will run out. Sometimes being bold is the only way to go. No friends or family......and no area! See the problem? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slowlycatchymonkey Posted September 12, 2023 Share Posted September 12, 2023 14 minutes ago, XTreme said: No friends or family......and no area! See the problem? I find it hard to believe if you posted on FB or the like you’re looking for your sons with as much info as you have (maybe even an old photo?) that not a single soul from your past with some knowledge wouldn’t get the message. But of course it’s your stuff to deal with however you like. Hope guilt or fear isn’t your master on this one. Good luck. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boboneleg Posted September 12, 2023 Share Posted September 12, 2023 He's not looking for his son(s) . Dolly the sheeps creator died this week, he wants to know if Dolly is still around ............... 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XTreme Posted September 12, 2023 Author Share Posted September 12, 2023 1 hour ago, Slowlycatchymonkey said: I find it hard to believe if you posted on FB or the like you’re looking for your sons with as much info as you have (maybe even an old photo?) that not a single soul from your past with some knowledge wouldn’t get the message. But of course it’s your stuff to deal with however you like. Hope guilt or fear isn’t your master on this one. Good luck. You've got to bear in mind that I split with my first wife over 40 years ago, and left Swansea over 30 years ago. That's a long time and tbh I've searched for people I knew all those years ago and nothing. They may not even be alive now. And out of those none of them really knew my ex-wife or kids. So there's nothing to go on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
busabeast Posted September 12, 2023 Share Posted September 12, 2023 17 hours ago, XTreme said: So many loose ends in my life Fred.......and time's running out to tie them all up. is calling 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
busabeast Posted September 12, 2023 Share Posted September 12, 2023 9 minutes ago, XTreme said: You've got to bear in mind that I split with my first wife over 40 years ago, and left Swansea over 30 years ago. That's a long time and tbh I've searched for people I knew all those years ago and nothing. They may not even be alive now. And out of those none of them really knew my ex-wife or kids. So there's nothing to go on. It sounds like Caroline is right and you will have to fly above the radar to lure the enemy up to meet you 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
busabeast Posted September 12, 2023 Share Posted September 12, 2023 What I want to know is when you do peg it what's happening with this place? It can't just disappear 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XTreme Posted September 12, 2023 Author Share Posted September 12, 2023 45 minutes ago, busabeast said: What I want to know is when you do peg it what's happening with this place? It can't just disappear First of all, I recently had a medical and besides my Hernia I'm in pretty decent shape! So I'm not exactly a Dead Man Walking! But you raise an interesting point, and it is something I've thought about! The site, domain name, and software will be passed across to whoever happen to be Mods at that time! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XTreme Posted September 12, 2023 Author Share Posted September 12, 2023 50 minutes ago, busabeast said: It sounds like Caroline is right and you will have to fly above the radar to lure the enemy up to meet you They're not the enemy they're my kids! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
busabeast Posted September 12, 2023 Share Posted September 12, 2023 40 minutes ago, XTreme said: They're not the enemy they're my kids! I know, but it went well with what I was saying. To find them your going to have to fly above the radar Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
busabeast Posted September 12, 2023 Share Posted September 12, 2023 41 minutes ago, XTreme said: First of all, I recently had a medical and besides my Hernia I'm in pretty decent shape! So I'm not exactly a Dead Man Walking! But you raise an interesting point, and it is something I've thought about! The site, domain name, and software will be passed across to whoever happen to be Mods at that time! Oh fuck the place is doomed then 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
busabeast Posted September 12, 2023 Share Posted September 12, 2023 18 hours ago, XTreme said: So many loose ends in my life Fred.......and time's running out to tie them all up. You're a kinky deviant fucker with all this talk about tieing up aren't you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Six30 Posted September 12, 2023 Share Posted September 12, 2023 2 minutes ago, busabeast said: Oh fuck the place is doomed then 45 minutes ago, XTreme said: They're not the enemy they're my kids! Why do you want to find them … just to reunite now your in your golden years ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buckster Posted September 12, 2023 Share Posted September 12, 2023 2 minutes ago, Six30 said: Why do you want to find them … just to reunite now your in your golden years ? He will need someone to wipe his arse before long. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XTreme Posted September 12, 2023 Author Share Posted September 12, 2023 2 minutes ago, Six30 said: Why do you want to find them … just to reunite now your in your golden years ? I've been searching for them since 2005.....this is nothing new! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Six30 Posted September 12, 2023 Share Posted September 12, 2023 34 minutes ago, Buckster said: He will need someone to wipe his arse before long. Is that you volunteering?? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slowlycatchymonkey Posted September 12, 2023 Share Posted September 12, 2023 @boboneleg I was talking to your son earlier, he said can you stop sending this. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boboneleg Posted September 12, 2023 Share Posted September 12, 2023 55 minutes ago, Slowlycatchymonkey said: @boboneleg I was talking to your son earlier, he said can you stop sending this. Seen that one before, it's not very attractive is it 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slowlycatchymonkey Posted September 12, 2023 Share Posted September 12, 2023 29 minutes ago, boboneleg said: Seen that one before, it's not very attractive is it Funny that’s exactly what your wife said 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sir Fallsalot Posted September 12, 2023 Share Posted September 12, 2023 8 hours ago, Six30 said: 30mph down to 20mph speed limit in wales as from 17th this month … Yup i know all about it 30 doesn't keep me at 30 so 20 got no chance LOL, It's not going down well here at all but not every 30mph road is going to become 20 there is a little common sense with it, through the streets and built up areas will become 20 other roads will stay at 30 This is an example of whats changing by me, this road is going to stay at 30mph and this is going to become 20mph 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sir Fallsalot Posted September 12, 2023 Share Posted September 12, 2023 Whats really mad is this is going to be 20mph But this looking the other way at the same spot is 60mph 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
busabeast Posted September 12, 2023 Share Posted September 12, 2023 3 hours ago, Six30 said: Is that you volunteering?? Well he is mighty mod Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
busabeast Posted September 12, 2023 Share Posted September 12, 2023 6 minutes ago, Sir Fallsalot said: Whats really mad is this is going to be 20mph But this looking the other way at the same spot is 60mph Makes perfect sense.... its definitely worthy of a national speed limit.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sir Fallsalot Posted September 12, 2023 Share Posted September 12, 2023 19 minutes ago, busabeast said: Makes perfect sense.... its definitely worthy of a national speed limit.... Yup and there's parts you can double that on the right bike, like here LOL 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
busabeast Posted September 12, 2023 Share Posted September 12, 2023 3 minutes ago, Sir Fallsalot said: Yup and there's parts you can double that on the right bike, like here LOL I'd never dream of doubling the speed limit, maybe triple but not double 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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